About Are You There, God? It’s Me, Generation X.

Family FiveI’m Jennifer, an American wife, mother, daughter and friend. I write about faith, family, culture and community. Generations, too. Especially mine, Generation X. I share spiritual insights from my Christian faith and lessons I’ve learned along life’s boundless ocean.

Thank you for reading my blog today. ♥  I love the God, kids, poets, bloggers, trains, farms, cities, colors, history, home, generations and prayer. I really like to take pictures.

I live in a prairie bungalow in Oklahoma City’s oldest neighborhood. Here is where my cup runneth over; where all my dreams of having my own family come true — one day at a time. I’m very blessed. The rural and urban landscapes that surround me form the backdrop of my life. I photograph and write about my journey, literal and spiritual, from the perspective of Gen-Xer in the 21st Century.

This is my life unfolding here on the Southern Great Plains. If you were here with me right now, we could take a walk together underneath the century-old trees that form canopies over the streets I call home. I would make a you a hot cup of coffee or maybe some tea. We’d talk about our kids and dreams. Hopes and fears. All the places we’ve been and the places we hope we’re going. And, I’d pray for you. We’d pray for each other.


I believe and rejoice in the Apostle’s Creed: I believe in God, the Father almighty, creator of heaven and earth. I believe in Jesus Christ, his only Son, our Lord, who was conceived by the Holy Spirit, born of the Virgin Mary, suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, died, and was buried; he descended to the dead. On the third day he rose again; he ascended into heaven, he is seated at the right hand of the Father, and he will come to judge the living and the dead. I believe in the Holy Spirit, the holy catholic Church, the communion of saints, the forgiveness of sins, the resurrection of the body, and the life everlasting. Amen.

Growing Up Generation X

Jen with Braids polaroidI was born in East L.A. in the late 60s. This makes me a first-wave member of Generation X. (The years are 1961 to 1981.) I am the youngest of four kids. Like most Gen-Xers, I was a latchkey kid throughout most of my childhood and youth. I grew up wearing hand-me-downs, watching lots of TV and worrying about going to war with Russia. I ate a lot of cold cereal, which I loved! Cap’n Crunch and Frankenberry were the perfect companions to my Scooby Doo, Isis and Brady Bunch. family six polaroid As I grew older, I watched different shows and worried about different things, but I still ate the same cereal. I worried about whether or not I’d be able to find a job with my expensive college degree. Reality Bites was an authentic narrative for many Gen-Xers. Well before terrorists blew that plane up over Lockerbie in 1988 (it killed 35 Gen X college students from Syracuse), I worried a lot about terrorism. Then, in 1995, it happened where I live in Oklahoma City. I lost a college classmate in that bombing. In 1974, my parents began a journey eastward. I ended up growing up in parsonages in rural towns across the Plains. I had a lot of fun in those small towns – Kermit, Ozark, Gilmer and Caney. I went to a lot of carnivals and county fairs and spent time on the farms of friends. I never forgot Huntington Beach though or Pudding Stone, the orange groves, Kiddie Land, Bixby Elementary and so many other things about my early childhood in Southern California.

prom 1983 polaroidHigh School and College

In 1985, I graduated from Caney Valley High School in Kansas (Go Bullpups)! The 51 Gen-Xers I graduated with elected me prom queen that year. It was thrilling even if I didn’t have a date to the dance. After high school, I attended Southern Nazarene University where I earned a Bachelor’s degree in speech communication and political science. College was a wonderful time in my life. I treasure those years and all my memories and friends. jen in collegeAfter college, I went to work in public affairs at a large military base in Oklahoma City. It was great preparation for my career in public relations. Along the way, I did a lot of graduate work at the University of Oklahoma and University of Central Oklahoma in history, geography, English and communications.

Marriage and Family

first weddingIn 1991, I married my college boyfriend. In the fall of 1997, I gave birth to my first child, a daughter. We named her Juliette. That was the happiest day of my life. Despite all my dreams and hopes, in January 1999, I became a single mom. That was a really tough time in my life. Divorce is an experience that never leaves you and it changed me. I hope someday I can write about those events.About Me Juliette and Jen Even though my years as a single mom were difficult, I have a lot of great memories of that time. It was just Juliette and me for four years. We went a lot of places and did a lot of fun things. rob jen wedding 2003In 2002, I met Robert at an art opening at the Oklahoma State Capitol. We were married exactly one year later in the Blue Room outside the Governor’s Office. Juliette was my flower girl. She was five. In 2005, my son Sullivan was born, and less than two years after that, Bridgette came along to complete our family. I am very blessed! Motherhood is the greatest adventure of my life.


For more than 20 years, I’ve made my career in public relations. I’ve served as the public information officer and spokesperson for several local and state government agencies. In 2007, I earned my accreditation in PR. My company is Big Banyan PR and Advocacy Marketing.

Blogging and Photography

I began blogging anonymously in 1999 on the Open Diary. (Yes, I’ve been writing online for 15 years!) I went public with my blog in 2006. By that time I was on Blogspot. In 2009, I bought my current URL. In 2013, I switched to WordPress. Blogging has changed so much, and I’m excited about the changes. I write about generations, faith, family, motherhood, community, culture, career, social issues and life in Oklahoma City. My blog has been featured in a bunch of great publications including The Washington Post! Below are the links. In 2008, I bought a Nikon D60 and started taking pictures. It’s probably my favorite thing to do. Recently, my picture of the Oklahoma State Capitol at sunset was featured on CNN. Last year, I invested in a Nikon D600. I love street photography and capturing every day life as it unfolds. I love to find magic in the ordinary and irony when nobody is looking. Click here to read more about my photography.

Chevy Malibu Blogger ProgramAs Seen

My blog has been featured in these media outlets and websites. In 2010, I participated in the Gottal Love Chevy OK campaign. I was briefly (and I do mean briefly!) featured in a commercial. Here are a bunch of hilarious videos of my experience driving the car for a month. (Don’t judge. Ha!)

Generation X As Seen Here
Good Housekeeping
The Stir on Cafe Mom
Currents, U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs
Fonts in Use
CNN iReport
Chevy Blogger Series
Huffington Post
Journal Record
Lost Ogle
NBC Entertainment News
NewsOK (Steve Lackmeyer)
The Oklahoman
Oklahoma Today Blog
Gotta Love Chevy OK
Misadventures With Andi
Spice Up Your Blog
Blogger Sentral
OGE Smart Grid Program
Twit TV
Washington Post
Devotional Diva


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